Category Archives: Child Loss
Novena to Saints Anne & Joachim — For: July 17 – July 25, 2024
Fifth Station Society
Please join me in supporting Springs in the Desert Ministry with the 5th Station Society. Follow the link and become a Simon of Cyrene.
https://springsinthedesert.org/fifth-station-society/

Good Friday
The Fifth Station:
Simon of Cyrene Helps Jesus Carry His CrossI lay everything at the foot of the CROSS…
Pray the Stations at the link below
The Stations of the Cross by Saint Francis of Assisi
Our Lady Undoer of Knots
Novena Day 1
Go to youtube for Days 2-9
A letter to YOU, from the Poor Clare Colettine’s TMD
Dear readers, below is a copied email that we received today from the Poor Clare Colettine’s, Wales, UK. They have been part of our group of religious intercessors since we have been online… Please feel free to write them and get on their daily mailing list. They have beautiful reflections each day that will build your courage as a Catholic Christian. God bless!
The Casket of Saint Colette
J+M+A
Dear Little Hearts,
In response to the tears and pain of many mothers and those desiring to be mothers, we are inspired by the Holy Spirit to begin this new simple initiative. This casket will be placed upon the altar every Saturday at St. Colette’s celebration and the praying of the (St. Colette) chaplet. This casket is for the names of unborn life that was lost through miscarriage, and for children who died in their early years. The names will not be read out in public, but will be placed in the casket for the community to pray over… the casket will be placed next to the relic veil of Saint Colette. If you have any names that you would like to send us, please do so, we are here for you.
Lovingly all your sisters
Prayer after loss of a Child
My Darling child, you have gone to Heaven to be eternally happy, and are now in the company of the Holy Innocents there. It was a thing hard for me to understand when you were taken from my arms, for parting with you has caused me grief that few can know. Yet in all my grief I am happy very happy for you, because I know the joy that is yours. Your joy is now my joy too, because I feel I had a part in bringing it to you. Now that you are in Heaven, I realize that you are mine in a truer sense than you could ever be on earth. I cannot lose you through sin. While parting with you was hard, I would not wish you back, because I know that you are happier than I could ever make you here with me. Help me, as you now can with your intercession, that I may be completely faithful to all my duties here on earth and merit to receive you again in eternal joys where there will be no more sorrow or parting from those we love. Amen
Prayers of a Mother
You are still my baby and will surely regard the prayers of your Mother who bore you. So darling, with confidence I speak to you. Intercede for me to obtain the favor that I here ask as a Mother through her child who stands before the throne of God. But, if what I ask is not according to the wisdom and loving designs of Almighty God for me and others, then ask Him to grant what is best according to His good pleasure and to give me the wisdom and faith to conform my will to HIS. AMEN
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Our Lady of Lourdes
” I am the Immaculate Conception”
Litany of Our Lady of Lourdes
Lord have mercy; Lord have mercy.
Christ have mercy; Christ have mercy.
Lord have mercy; Lord have mercy.
Christ hear us; Christ graciously hear us.
God the Father of Heaven; Have mercy on us.
God the Son, Redeemer of the world; Have mercy on us.
God the Holy Spirit; Have mercy on us.
Holy Trinity, one God; Have mercy on us.
Holy Mary; Pray for us.
Holy Mother of God; Pray for us.
Mother of Christ; Pray for us.
Mother of our Savior; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, help of Christians; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, source of love; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, mother of the poor; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, mother of the handicapped; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, mother of orphans; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, mother of all children; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, mother of all nations; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, mother of the Church; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, friend of the lonely; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, comforter of those who mourn; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, shelter of the homeless; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, guide of travelers; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, strength of the weak; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, refuge of sinners; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, comforter of the suffering; Pray for us.
Our Lady of Lourdes, help of the dying; Pray for us.
Queen of heaven; Pray for us.
Queen of peace; Pray for us.
Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world; Spare us O Lord.
Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world; Graciously hear us, O Lord.
Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world; Have mercy on us.
Christ hear us; Christ graciously hear us.
Let us pray:
Grant us, your servants, we pray you, Lord God, to enjoy perpetual health of mind and body. By the glorious intercession of Blessed Mary ever Virgin, may we be delivered from present sorrows, and enjoy everlasting happiness. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Chaplet of the Seven Sorrows of Our Lady
This devotion goes back to the Middle Ages but has gained new popularity following the Church-approved Marian apparitions in Kibeho, Rwanda in the 1980s. In her apparitions, Our Lady of Kibeho recommended that people pray the Chaplet (or Rosary) of the Seven Sorrows to obtain the favor of repentance.
Continue here: http://www.marian.org/mary/prayers/sorrows.php

Pope Francis Consecrates the WORLD to the Immaculate Heart of Mary
A Safe Place away from the Pain
Last week I watched my unconscious father being placed on a stretcher, and wheeled out to a helicopter. He was on his way to an intensive care unit in a city hospital. His life was hanging by a thread. I hugged my distraught mother and wiped away her tears, and told her I wouldn’t leave her alone to deal with the pain. I faced the intensive care ward with its ventilators and tubes and beeping machines. I encountered the fragility of life.
And I remained calm.
“Sue, you are so strong.”
In a way I’ve been there before. Some years ago, I sat by the side of my newborn son in the NICU. Thomas lay motionless, only his chest rising and falling, as the ventilator kept him alive. Later, I held his tiny body as he died. I am familiar with pain and illness and even death.
Yesterday it was my 30th wedding anniversary. Before leaving for work, my husband Andy presented me with a card.
“But when did you find time to buy this?” I asked. “It’s been such a difficult week. I didn’t get to the shops to buy a card for you. I’m sorry.”
Andy brushed my apologies aside as I opened the card. Inside he’d written a long message from his heart. As I read the beautiful words of love, the tears started to spill from my eyes. The stress of the past few days flowed over me, and I cried for the first time.
Life is so very difficult sometimes. We wonder how we will survive. It can seem easier to avoid pain by stepping back away from it. We can’t allow it to touch us inside where we are vulnerable. We refuse to feel. We remain calm despite the circumstances. We look strong. We carry on. It’s strange how we can function like this.
I can remember withdrawing my emotions when I suffered miscarriage after miscarriage, many years ago. I also remember being tempted to enter that state again, after our son died. I wanted to go to a place when nothing could reach me.
But where pain can’t reach, nor can love. And we need love. Love can heal.
After Thomas died, someone reminded me, “If you don’t allow yourself to feel pain, you will also not be able to feel any good emotions. You will shut everything out, bad and good.” It is the moments of love and beauty and hope that we experience amongst the sorrow, that keep us going. We need them so much.
At the present moment, I still need to be strong. My mother needs me to stay calm. But that’s okay. I still have my safe place to retreat to. My safe place isn’t a distant place where emotions have disappeared.
My safe place is in the arms of love and Love. As long as I am in that place I know I will survive.
If you’d like to share more of my grief stories, please visit my blog Sue Elvis Writes




The Pope celebrated mass in St Peter’s square this morning in honor of the Marian Day, an event organized as part of the Year of Faith on the anniversary of the final apparition of the Blessed Virgin Mary at Fatima (13th of October 1917). He also consecrated the world to the Immaculate Heart of Mary.